Gosh..! Is he Cheating on me?!

Picture of frozen cherry trees..one of my fav wallpaper..its amazing rite? Wish we hav it here..

Here are the surprising & obvious signs a dude is being unfaithful.

1. He’s super-protective of his gadgets.
The main way that unfaithful are found out is through the discovery of incriminating e-mails, IM chats, cell phone texts or bills. So if he’s being unfaithful, he may guard his gadgets or act really defensive when you innocently touch his phone or computer..its like u touch a time bomb! It should be a giant red flag if he readily gave you passwords in the past, and now he’s more evasive.

2. He steps up the grooming.
This is soo obvious, but it’s a sign many women miss. If your man starts grooming down there without you requesting it, that could be an indication that he’s spending more time naked..or grooming himself for her. You can actually thank porn for this tipoff (Erkk..gross..yea i know). Guys today are used to viewing man scaped dudes on screen, so if he has another chick to impress with his sexual powers..*Grrr!. Well, he may emulate those ultra-trimmed guys. Another clue: He’s spending more time at the gym. Ah Ha!

3. He smells different.
When he comes home, if he doesn’t smell the same as he did in the morning or its not d same smell u recognize, plus it isn’t the scent of soap in the gym neither at your home, it may be because he showered at her place. Ta-Daa! So pay attention, because in this case, that old saying “the nose knows” might very well be true.

4. Nothing fazes him anymore.
If he was short-tempered before, a combination of added sex and attention could be making him way more relaxed, even downright giddy. If your guy is suddenly going around all happy and whistling, then you need to find out why. Duhh..surely s’thing is wrong.

5. He becomes suspicious of you.
If he’s normally a mellow type, all of a sudden he may want to know where you are all the time and with whom. It’s the result of him realizing that if he’s cheating and it’s not that hard, you might also be getting away with it. Also, beware of extremely detailed responses to even your most innocent “How was work today?” queries. He may be preparing epic answers because he’s terrified of getting caught.

p/s : Guys..it might go the same for girls too..except..i think us girls is soo much better at hiding any secret.. Hahaha..no fret but u guys suck at hiding secret sumtimes. Sowiee...

But here's a story for u guys..it happened. Well..a guy approach me..he's very good looking..cute! Then he started to engaged me in a conversation..in a very friendly ways.. Yup..flirting of coz! But i kept remembering how familiar his face to me..n mind me..i hav d worse memory sumtime. Thats when i checked on my Facebook & Friendster..i realize he's one of my friend bf! Damn..i escape a very near dead cat fight.. Fuhh! Thank God..

Q & A with kids...such a funny & witty answer.

I bet this picture makes u smile.. This kid's gonna hate his Mom for this some day!

My friend e-mail me this article..i wanna share with u all..coz it's soo cute! Hahaha..

HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY?
(1) You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming. - Alan, age 10
(2) No person really decides before they grow up who they're going to marry God decides it all way before, and you get to find out later who you're stuck with. - Kristen, age 10

WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED?
(1) Twenty-three is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then. - Camille, age 10
(2) No age is good to get married at. You got to be a fool to get married. - Freddie, age 6 (very wise for his age)

HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE ARE MARRIED?
(1) You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids. - Derrick, age 8

WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD HAVE IN COMMON?
(1) Both don't want any more kids. - Lori, age 8

WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?
(1) Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough. - Lynnette, age 8 (isn't she a treasure)
(2) On the first date, they just tell each other lies and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date. - Martin, age 10 (Who said boys do not have brains)

WHAT WOULD YOU DO ON A FIRST DATE THAT WAS TURNING SOUR?
(1) I'd run home and play dead. The next day I would call all the newspapers and make sure they wrote about me in all the dead columns. - Craig, age 9

WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?
(1) When they're rich. - Pam, age 7 (I could not have said it better myself)
(2) The law says you have to be eighteen, so I wouldn't want to mess with that. - Curt, age 7 (Good Point)
(3 ) The rule goes like this: If you kiss someone, then you should marry them and have kids with them. It's the right thing to do. - Howard, age 8 (Who made that rule?)

IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED?
(1 ) I don't know which is better, but I'll tell you one thing. I'm never going to have sex with my wife. I don't want to be all grossed out. - Theodore, age 8 (Too much detail for his age)
(2 ) It's better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up after them. - Anita, age 9 (bless you child)

HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE DIFFERENT IF PEOPLE DIDN'T GET MARRIED?
(1 ) There sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn't there? - Kelvin, age 8

And the #1 Favourite is........
HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK?
(1 ) Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a truck. - Ricky, age 10 ( The boy already understands)

Loving a jerk..what can u do?

What kind of jerk?
Emm..d one i'm saying is a dude that already has a gf but 'we' being soo in love n weak..can't manage to stop ourselves for falling at his feet altho we know d fact he's not alone. D fact that he's a total jerk is b'coz..he won't let us go too. Yea..he wants both! In my case..he deserve to b called all d bad words..s**tface, dumba**, f**kerface, etc..u name it.
What can we do now? In my case..if he refuse to choose between two..n kept saying s'thing like.."it's hard to let her go".."it's complicated, i need more time".. Ahh..to hell with all that..he's juz using u. I clearly told him..pick one! He can't be that stupid right?
What would i do? Find a new guy..or try to forget that bastard by any means. It won't be easy..but worth trying. Why would u torture ur heart for a guy that doesn't appreciate u?
Yea..we love him but does he really loves us like we felt towards him?
Here's a few stuff u can do to take him off ur mind :

1. Engage urself in doing stuff u love..like hanging out with ur gf..go to d gym(works for me).
2. Get busy with ur works..or studies..u'll get good result n more money.
3. Go out n be brave! Find new friends..they might b 'd one' that can replace him. Hahaha..who knows?
4. Find fun stuff to do in ur free time..join a society..get involved in a sport events.
5. If u hav a hobby..now is d time to pursue it.
6. If u hav money..go travelling..pick a few fun crazy headed friends n juz go!
7. Learn s'thing new like swimming or learn to play any musical instruments.
8. Do s'thing u've been dying to try..eg:go surfing, scuba diving, flying fox or bungee jumping..believe me u'll hav courage to do it now.

Emm..soo far this's all i've got to suggest.
U can always try one or juz end up crying every time he blew a date with u to be with his gf(altho he always lie bout it..u'll know).
Gudluck! Peace..

Picture above is at Celebrity Fitness Gurney Plaza..in d studio for one of d launching for Les Mills Body Pump(i think..). Yeah..working out is d best way for me to forget him. Shoo..go away! Hahaha..

p/s : this one goes out to u my buddy..be strong..u can do it!
A'one that has any more ideas..feel free to contribute. Preciate it!

Woohoo..!

Eloo e'one...its my first blog ever!

Spose to be like a on9 diary or s'thing rite...

*Sigh..i dunno..haha..guess i juz wanna try it.

I'll let u all know bit by bits of my life then u can decide if its worth it bebeh!

Till then fil free to drop any comment...preciate it!

p/s : it's a picture of my fav lil cousin..soo cute! Kids r my weakest point..especially this type.