Loving a jerk..what can u do?

What kind of jerk?
Emm..d one i'm saying is a dude that already has a gf but 'we' being soo in love n weak..can't manage to stop ourselves for falling at his feet altho we know d fact he's not alone. D fact that he's a total jerk is b'coz..he won't let us go too. Yea..he wants both! In my case..he deserve to b called all d bad words..s**tface, dumba**, f**kerface, etc..u name it.
What can we do now? In my case..if he refuse to choose between two..n kept saying s'thing like.."it's hard to let her go".."it's complicated, i need more time".. Ahh..to hell with all that..he's juz using u. I clearly told him..pick one! He can't be that stupid right?
What would i do? Find a new guy..or try to forget that bastard by any means. It won't be easy..but worth trying. Why would u torture ur heart for a guy that doesn't appreciate u?
Yea..we love him but does he really loves us like we felt towards him?
Here's a few stuff u can do to take him off ur mind :

1. Engage urself in doing stuff u love..like hanging out with ur gf..go to d gym(works for me).
2. Get busy with ur works..or studies..u'll get good result n more money.
3. Go out n be brave! Find new friends..they might b 'd one' that can replace him. Hahaha..who knows?
4. Find fun stuff to do in ur free time..join a society..get involved in a sport events.
5. If u hav a hobby..now is d time to pursue it.
6. If u hav money..go travelling..pick a few fun crazy headed friends n juz go!
7. Learn s'thing new like swimming or learn to play any musical instruments.
8. Do s'thing u've been dying to try..eg:go surfing, scuba diving, flying fox or bungee jumping..believe me u'll hav courage to do it now.

Emm..soo far this's all i've got to suggest.
U can always try one or juz end up crying every time he blew a date with u to be with his gf(altho he always lie bout it..u'll know).
Gudluck! Peace..

Picture above is at Celebrity Fitness Gurney Plaza..in d studio for one of d launching for Les Mills Body Pump(i think..). Yeah..working out is d best way for me to forget him. Shoo..go away! Hahaha..

p/s : this one goes out to u my buddy..be strong..u can do it!
A'one that has any more ideas..feel free to contribute. Preciate it!